Here is a very useful list of 10 tips of advise for caregivers by Gail Samatha who is a specialist in elder care planning.  This article from Wicked Local.

** Ask for help when you need it - whether it’s taking your loved one to a doctor’s appointment, concerns about what to do next or just feeling overwhelmed.  Try caregiving websites, books and groups.
** Seek family support. Plan a weekly check-in via email or phone to give updates and get the help you need, reducing your caregiving workload and alleviating some stress.

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