How to Discuss Care Options with Elderly Parents
Roanoak Times writer Beth Macy provides an honest look at how to approach one of the most sensitive family subjects: Time for elderly care.
If Martha Anderson had her own billboard in town, these are the three messages she would have flashing from it:
1. Everyone over the age of 18 should have a medical power of attorney or an advanced medical directive, a document that outlines their medical wishes in the event of a life-threatening accident or illness.
2. All seniors should designate a durable power of attorney, a person who can make legal and financial decisions for them if — and only if — they can’t. (The medical and legal power of attorney designees are not always the same person.)
3. The sooner the family talks about end-of-life issues, the better everyone will be able to cope.
